Planning to stay with friends or relatives? Don't be unwanted house guest. These tips can make the experience more enjoyable for everyone. And you might even get invited back.
- Call first. See to it that your host know in advance your arrival and departure dates, and make sure your schedule fits their plans. For instance they might have other guests visiting at the time.
- Double check who's really invited. Don't bring pets or children unless they're specifically invited. Your dog chewing up the family's shoes or your kids destroying the furniture can be a host's worst nightmare. If your children are welcome, make sure they are on their best behaviour.
- Don't come empty handed. Bring a gift, such as their favorite drink or a decoration for the house, to show your appreciation.
- Lend a hand. Help out with the chores whenever possible. Straighten up your bed in the morning, hang your towel properly in the bathroom. If the hosts have house help, a small tip for the extra work is often appreciated.
- Phone home with care. Your host may refuse to accept money for long distance calls, then regret their graciousness when the bill arrives. To avoid problems, use a cell phone.
- Go with the flow. Adapt your lifestyle to the way your host run their house. Don't expect them to stay up to the small hours with you if they usually go bed at 10p.m.
- Have fun. Make your visit a joyful one. Your hosts aren't running a hotel - they invited you because they like your company. Don't hide in the guest room, and invite them along when you make plans to go out.
- Buy dinner. Take your hosts out to their favorite restaurant. This give both the cook and their budget a break.
- Say thanks. A card or phone call to say thanks will bw appreciated. Even better, send a small gift.
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