Getting romance just one day a year won't keep your relationship healthy, so:
- Notice the small things. Every single issue or gesture makes a difference. Negative small thing can add up to big problems, while positive ones can build closeness.
- Take off your mask. Many of us act out a one-sided persona because we think it's what our partner likes. But a lasting relationship needs you to show you true desires and feelings.
- Fight stereotypes. We all pick up unconscious scripts of how we think couples should act. These can suffocate a relationship. Think about what you both really want,
- Support each other's dream. Each of you will bring ambitions from your single life. Apart from those incompatible with partnership, it's important to support-and make sacrifices-each other's dreams.
- Allow for separateness. The growth of a relationship depends partly on the growth of the individuals. If you want to do thing separately sometimes, it doesn't mean there is something wrong.
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